The abbreviation of "BDSM" describes the following human sexual behavior:
* Bondage & Discipline (B&D)
* Domination & Submission (D&S)
* Sadism and Masochism (or sadomasochism) (S&M)
Many of the specific practices in BDSM if performed in a nonsexual context, could be considered unpleasant, undesirable or abusive. e.g. pain, physical restraint and servitude are traditionally inflicted on persons against their will and to their detriment, in BDSM, these activities are engaged in with the mutual consent of the participants, and for mutual enjoyment.
This emphasis on informed consent and safety is also known as SSC (safe, sane and consensual), though others prefer the term RACK (risk-aware consensual kink). In essence, both terms refer to all participants acknowledging and accepting some level of risk.
Some further ideas about BDSM:
It may or may not involve sex of any kind or sexual role playing.
How dominant or submissive a person may be in real life does not necessarily
indicate which role they will play in a scene.
Edited from: BDSM
Definition and Behaviours
http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/BDSM
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From the website: Bondage.com
is the world's largest BDSM community and the most exciting bondage and
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Links and information on bondage, alternative lifestyles, personals, gay and lesbian resources.
BDSM & Alternate Lifestyles
Resource
http://www.bdsm.com/
From the website: 'What you will find here are stories about dominant Masters and Mistresses and the submissive women who serve them as slaves. My writings contain nudity, bondage, BDSM, discipline, coercion, sex and the subjugation of initially-unwilling captive females.
Please note that the writings on this site are intended as pure fantasy and do not reflect the reality of a loving and consensual Dominant / submissive relationship. Neither I nor the Webhost condone or encourage in any way the enforced or unwilling enslavement of any person, male or female and would support the strongest possible action against anyone who attempted to achieve this.'
BDSM
Erotic Stories: Domination & Submission
http://www.talkds.co.uk/GeetwoEroticStories/
"The true man wants two things: danger and play. For that reason he wants woman, as the most dangerous plaything." (Friedrich Nietzsche)
Studies show that being scared is a turn on (we are more likely to think of sex or act in a sexual manner).
There seems to be a relationship between fear, excitement and rape in war. This makes sense in terms of evolution where tribal fighting was a significant part of our ancestral past - and women are the spoils of war. So this should be explored as one causal factor in the evolution of rape.
What is the relationship between pleasure and pain?
By understanding our true sexual evolution we realise a variety of sexual behaviours that can be cultivated with your partner (or many partners) without shame. Variety is the spice of life!
'Swan' from the Heron Clan wrote to me about their BDSM blog:
Hello Karene,
I visited the Wave-structure-of-matter website today and found it interesting
and compatible with my personal view/understanding of the universe and reality.
As I looked at your sexuality/fetish page, I was struck by a "gap"
in the offerings there, and thought you might find it interesting to look
into the blog that our family keeps.
We are a polyamorous and BDSM triad. The three of us have lived together
as an intentional and committed family for about five years now, practicing
both fidelitous, committed polyamory and BDSM as a sensual/erotic lifestyle
orientation. We are mature, college educated professionals, who all contribute
to our community, while living a hidden lifestyle that our culture censures
and disdains. The blog: www.theheronclan.blogspot.com
details our lifestyle, but also the daily realities of our loving and caring
for one another.
All the best,
Sue (Swan)
'Nothing is sacred and anything can be sexualized, from Disney characters
and B-Movie monsters to baked beans, latex birthday balloons and Thanksgiving
dinner. We believe in actively participating in creating our own erotic
entertainment, forging new art, original literature and fluid sexual identities.
Popular assumptions about what constitutes a healthy sexual fantasy or sex
life should be questioned. This does not mean that we believe that 'anything
goes' or that there are no valid limits to human sexual expression.'
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From
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Fetish Personals:
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We have a fantastic selection of PVC, corsets, adult toys, wigs, bondage equipment, high heels, hand made latex, leather, uniforms, moulded rubber, corsets, dildos, lingerie and sexy thongs.'
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